confusion and pride at the same time

Amira

Vanessa Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

what do you exactly mean?

Chris1 Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.

Angelina

Amira what do you exactly mean?

you are currently wearing the belt without breaks. do you plan to continue this until your wedding or do you have a specific/undefined time frame?

Amira I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.

can you manage without breaks so far? you wrote earlier that you couldn't imagine that, so i ask

Vanessa

Amira what do you exactly mean?

Wearing the thigh bands permanently until marriage.

Angelina do you plan to continue this until your wedding

Good question,too.

Angelina

Vanessa Wearing the thigh bands permanently until marriage.

the thighbands? @Amira never wore them permanently. i thought you meant the belt.

Vanessa

Angelina

I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

Angelina

Vanessa I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

that would be news to me, maybe @Amira can clear it up for us

Amira

ZeynepFox Nice to see that I may not be the only chaste girl with Islamic faith.

no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

Vanessa I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday, so nothing overly spectacular compared to others here I guess.

ZeynepFox

Nice to see that I may not be the only chaste girl with Islamic faith. 😊

ZeynepFox

Amira no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

Has your wearing of a chastity belt also a religious background? I know that there are different opinions about headscarfs, but there's no disagreement about the virtues of chastity. 😊

Do you wear a My-Steel Total?

Vanessa

Amira no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday

Ok,I didn't understand you well.

Thank you for the clarification!🙂

Angelina

Amira no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday, so nothing overly spectacular compared to others here I guess.

so it's still only part-time, I think that's also good.

Amira no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

with you it is rather the other way round because your stepfather brought the belt more as an idea because of western values. right?

Amira

Angelina with you it is rather the other way round because your stepfather brought the belt more as an idea because of western values. right?

Hmm, yes, except for my special underwear I live 100 % like the common german girl. I would say in my heart no god or other entity plays any role at all.

Angelina

Amira

i think it's impressive how well you're getting along in germany now, you really are an ideal example of successful integration 😃

Amira

Angelina you really are an ideal example of successful integration

thank you, I want to have the best life possible and when I am in a new society, I just have to adapt I guess.

Angelina

Amira

i am very happy to read this. may i ask a question. your stepfather adopted you (if i remember correctly), do you have a german passport now? I know it's a very personal question, but I'm just asking out of curiosity.

Amira

Sure you can ask. I don't have a German passport yet, but applied for it at the Landratsamt (I am absolutely not sure how to translate that, maybe rural district office?)

James

Amira For someone unsure of how to translate it you got it spot on Amira !

Angelina

Amira Sure you can ask. I don't have a German passport yet, but applied for it at the Landratsamt (I am absolutely not sure how to translate that, maybe rural district office?)

that sounds very good and thank you for your openness. i ask this because my girlfriend also only got a german passport after a few years. i don't know the translation either. 😂

Amira

i think you are really the only one. i always advocate that everything should be made easier, but of course there are countries where things are much worse and many things are only possible through contacts or money.

Amira

James For someone unsure of how to translate it you got it spot on

thank you 🙂

I actually may be the only person here who likes the German bureaucracy. Here you can be sure that when you apply for something at an authority that you will finally get either approval or get denied for some lawful reason, but you don't have to pay a bribe or something to get your things done.

Max9

Amira the downside is that the bureaucracy cam't cover all individual circumstances of all cases, that's why it does treat several people unfair and why it is contraproductive in several cases.

Dalila

This is a very inspiring story. @Amira I hope you can continue to be strong so you can feel proud.

Amira

Dalila I hope you can continue to be strong so you can feel proud.

THank you Dalila, I'll try as it gives me a good feeling 🙂

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