Users, are you married or not, while in/out of chastity?

Laura

As requested by Raziel

Angelina

I have choose "Not married but still using chastity" although i find the answer kind of funny, i would replace but with and because i don't see the contradiction, after all the whole forum is called unwedchastity 😂

Raziel

Thank you!

Sara2001

I will be married and will have to wear the belt. What should I choose?

Jen

Sara2001 yeah does it matter if actually married?

Raziel

Sara2001
Choose whatever you want, you could always change it later if you wish.

Vanessa

Not married,and in chastity until it...

Sara2001

"Not married(but still using chastity)",then,after your wedding,come back on this topic and switch to "married(while wearing chastity)"!😉

Angelina i would replace but with and

Right.

Daphne

I'm not married but i am permanently in chastity

Rina

Currently not married without chastity but will move onto “not married with chastity belt” then “married while wearing chastity belt”, but really depends on situations and my partner’s willingness to hold keys. Honestly, I want to wear chastity belt at least until I undergo GRS / SRS.

I don’t know the difference I would feel once I’m belted, but overall, I like the idea of chastity belt and I want to keep wearing it, though.

kat_anders

Angelina yes exactly!

Avery

I will choose not married but using chastity with an asterisk since I am only 90 days in and probably should be considered an apprentice.

Angelina

Vanessa "Not married(but still using chastity)",then,after your wedding,come back on this topic and switch to "married(while wearing chastity)"!😉

then you have to remind Sara and me again 😉

I am surprised that no one has voted here who is married but not living in chastity.

LoonyMel

Unmarried and not using it. And I am surprised this is the runner up pool. Tought we would ha e been significantly less.

Max9

LoonyMel probably mostly keyholders

Avery

Angelina I am surprised that no one has voted here who is married but not living in chastity.

I am too. Have we not seen postings here where a married couple is having sex but have agreed the woman would wear a belt as a sign of fidelity, or some other reason. They would need to know something about belts.

Joh

Angelina I am surprised that no one has voted here who is married but not living in chastity.

Let see what happen next year.

Joh

Avery Have we not seen postings here where a married couple is having sex but have agreed the woman would wear a belt as a sign of fidelity, or some other reason. They would need to know something about belts.

But than she would vote for "married and in chastity"

Angelina

Avery

i have to change my comment because @strictfather ather voted for it. but it is still impressive how clearly the roles are distributed here in the forum.

Joh Let see what happen next year.

for me, the year after next, that's why i wanted to have the fifth possible answer. "Married and previously in chastity" 😉

Joh but it is also a gift from her to her husband to remain chaste (not to masturbate).

since i plan to get all my sexual happiness through camryn after my wedding, would i still be chaste by this definition?

Avery

Joh But than she would vote for "married and in chastity"

Is that right? If she's screwing her husband but wearing a belt otherwise is that chastity? Sounds to me like that's cheating.

Joh

Avery Is that right? If she's screwing her husband but wearing a belt otherwise is that chastity? Sounds to me like that's cheating

This is certainly true from your point of view, but it is also a gift from her to her husband to remain chaste (not to masturbate).

Vanessa

Avery

I think it should be considered as chastity,yes.

Avery My brothers for example.

It's surprising.

Mine have no problem if his girlfriend masturbates.

Angelina i have to change my comment because @strictfather ather voted for it

It would be good if he give some news.

Angelina it is still impressive how clearly the roles are distributed here in the forum.

It is not surprising the most votes are "Not married (but still using chastity)" in a forum named unwed chastity,however.

Angelina would i still be chaste by this definition

Yes,but not in chastity.

Avery

I agree.

And i think a big part of customers of chastity belts use it this way(less than fetishists who use it as a game,however).

Avery

Joh This is certainly true from your point of view, but it is also a gift from her to her husband to remain chaste (not to masturbate).

So if everything is the same but the woman masturbates she is then not considered chaste?

Joh

Avery So if everything is the same but the woman masturbates she is then not considered chaste?

I see it as a common relationship.
On the other hand in many relationship both do not masturbate. If they are happy with their sex it is not necessary.

If you look closely, it is only a question of how you see it. What is a big deal for some is something quite normal for others, without wanting to judge.

Avery

Joh If you look closely, it is only a question of how you see it. What is a big deal for some is something quite normal for others, without wanting to judge.

And I assure you I am not trying to judge, just understand. My experience is when I have a lover I am more likely to masturbate because I'm horny for him all the time. He is the image I have in mind to help get me off. I know men who feel that masturbating is a form of cheating, however. My brothers for example.