Avery Perhaps in a BDSM style dom-sub relationship. The couple agree to be together with the dom having complete control over the sub, including locking her in a belt even though neither plans to stray from the relationship. It is just a thing they do that attracts them both.
It is a very, very, VERY big difference between not having orgasms because you promised it to your partner without a chastity belt or to simply not be able to have an orgasm because you wear a chastity belt for him. It doesn't have much to do with trust. In both scenario a lot of trust in both directions is mandatory, but the feeling of being locked is a very powerful feeling.
Vanessa Mine have no problem if his girlfriend masturbates.
I have no problem when Daniel masturbates, too. I often help him with this 🙂
Avery On the other hand if one wants ones lover, male or female, to be happy and they enjoy masturbation then mayhap one should let them go ahead.
For me it is an important part of the dynamic, that he not only can have orgasms whenever he wants, but that he really has them, while I stay locked and without orgasms for him. We can both completely focus on his pleasure and this feels very romantic and satisfying for me.
Avery One more idea I had is to give a guy nude pictures of oneself which he could use to masturbate to, thus decreasing his demands for actual sex and help the girl remain chaste.
I can give him oral and stay in chastity.