Users, are you married or not, while in/out of chastity?

I will choose not married but using chastity with an asterisk since I am only 90 days in and probably should be considered an apprentice.

Angelina yes exactly!

Sara2001
Choose whatever you want, you could always change it later if you wish.

Not married,and in chastity until it...

Sara2001

"Not married(but still using chastity)",then,after your wedding,come back on this topic and switch to "married(while wearing chastity)"!

Angelina i would replace but with and

Right.

Unmarried and not using it. And I am surprised this is the runner up pool. Tought we would ha e been significantly less.

Vanessa "Not married(but still using chastity)",then,after your wedding,come back on this topic and switch to "married(while wearing chastity)"!

then you have to remind Sara and me again

I am surprised that no one has voted here who is married but not living in chastity.

Angelina I am surprised that no one has voted here who is married but not living in chastity.

I am too. Have we not seen postings here where a married couple is having sex but have agreed the woman would wear a belt as a sign of fidelity, or some other reason. They would need to know something about belts.

Angelina I am surprised that no one has voted here who is married but not living in chastity.

Let see what happen next year.

Avery Have we not seen postings here where a married couple is having sex but have agreed the woman would wear a belt as a sign of fidelity, or some other reason. They would need to know something about belts.

But than she would vote for "married and in chastity"

Joh But than she would vote for "married and in chastity"

Is that right? If she's screwing her husband but wearing a belt otherwise is that chastity? Sounds to me like that's cheating.

Joh This is certainly true from your point of view, but it is also a gift from her to her husband to remain chaste (not to masturbate).

So if everything is the same but the woman masturbates she is then not considered chaste?

Avery So if everything is the same but the woman masturbates she is then not considered chaste?

I see it as a common relationship.
On the other hand in many relationship both do not masturbate. If they are happy with their sex it is not necessary.

If you look closely, it is only a question of how you see it. What is a big deal for some is something quite normal for others, without wanting to judge.

Joh If you look closely, it is only a question of how you see it. What is a big deal for some is something quite normal for others, without wanting to judge.

And I assure you I am not trying to judge, just understand. My experience is when I have a lover I am more likely to masturbate because I'm horny for him all the time. He is the image I have in mind to help get me off. I know men who feel that masturbating is a form of cheating, however. My brothers for example.

Avery My experience is when I have a lover I am more likely to masturbate because I'm horny for him all the time.

From my experience the same at the beginning but after some time (month) it decrease as long as you have a satisfying sex life.

Avery I know men who feel that masturbating is a form of cheating, however.

You should talk about with him and find a agreement which is good for both.

LoonyMel probably mostly keyholders

Like most people here I’m not married but still locked up. Belt may or may not come off after marriage although it probably will it depends on what me and my bf decide.

Avery After marriage I will stay belted with just a very few releases. If anything comes as it is planned. I will have releases every few months, not more.

Avery

i have to change my comment because @strictfather ather voted for it. but it is still impressive how clearly the roles are distributed here in the forum.

Joh Let see what happen next year.

for me, the year after next, that's why i wanted to have the fifth possible answer. "Married and previously in chastity"

Joh but it is also a gift from her to her husband to remain chaste (not to masturbate).

since i plan to get all my sexual happiness through camryn after my wedding, would i still be chaste by this definition?

Angelina since i plan to get all my sexual happiness through camryn after my wedding, would i still be chaste by this definition?

I do not see a difference. The only difference is with a CB and a key holder it would be 99% (1% for lock picking ) sure.