Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt

Joh Fortunately, this is no longer the case, although we have too many of them in Germany again.

Hang on, a good number of my friends are nazis.

Zero. The best number of nazis to have in your circle of friends.

youdontknowme I agree. Zero is the best.
Nobody of my friends are nazis.

Joh With this detail explanation how you see it I can understand your view. I do not agree but I can accept it.

I used translator!

Ines he has said that she does not see it as normal for a couple to live together before getting married.

Such opinion is not too rare. My parents think the same

HHelen She shouldn't live with a guy without marriage

Even if she wears a belt?

Kaja You live in medieval ages.

Can you elaborate, please?

Renita Even if she wears a belt?

It doesn't make sense.

Renita
In my opinion it does not matter, the question is not about if she wears a chastity belt, but about they are not married.

Angelina both partners in a relationship usually want to have sex

They do, but should behave differently.

HHelen It doesn't make sense.

It guarantees no sex.

Ines but about they are not married.

What's a difference?

Well, I am going to delete post about politics here, first, my post.

HHelen I can't live with a guy without sex.

You can if you consistently wear a chastity belt.

Angelina You can if you consistently wear a chastity belt.

Or he is gay.

Joh Or he is gay.

haha, I hadn't thought of that at all, but you're right

HHelen I can't live with a guy without sex.

Why not? Why can't you control yourself? Have you spoken to a doctor or therapist about this?

Men have a right to feel safe too!

HHelen Even worse.

Why? You can be sure he has no sexual interest. All his reaction is caused from the situation not from any sexual demand.

HHelen but I wouldn't live together with guy.

Than live with a women.

HHelen I can, but I wouldn't live together with guy.

if you can control yourself or wear a belt there is no need to worry. i think it is much harder when you marry someone you don't know if you can harmonise in everyday life and you usually only find out when you live with him. many relationships have failed because of this and a marriage should be worth being sure beforehand.