Saintprudence Yes, she is a bit more than a keyholder, but that is nothing to write here in the forum. If anybody wants to talk more of the other stuff, its better to write via Mail 🙂

    Kris I love her

    When you love her why are you searching for a GF 😉
    I am joking 🤣
    Than is all fine. 👍

      Joh Don't trigger me 🤣 No. 🙂 She loves me too but in a special way 🙂

      Kris Yes, but I have no other option 🙂

      then that is only possible if your partner would accept it. or a key holder exchange? sorry but i am just imagining the situation from the point of view of your potential partner, not simple

      Kris It was my wish to be belted and we both defined the rules. Don't worry 🙂

      and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

      Joh When you love her why are you searching for a GF 😉

      To be honest, I'm really asking myself this question @Kris?

        Angelina To be honest, I'm really asking myself this question

        Because she likes girls more 😃

        Angelina and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

        Not really

          Kris Because she likes girls more

          Valid argument.

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            Kris Have you talked about chastity again with your potential new GF? Any updates?

              @Kris I don't need to know all about you but what keeps happening with Chastity is if you are afraid of your belt the other person will be afraid because you are afraid. If you are cool with it then they will be cool with it.
              Don't try to plan or mention it at all then you wont think about the time you spend meeting him (or her)

                Sara2001 Have you talked about chastity again with your potential new GF? Any updates?

                No updates :/

                Megan Thanks Megan. I'm not afraif of the belt and I'm willed to wear it for my potential girlfriend. Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction, if she wants more

                  Kris Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction

                  Why you than scared? Handle it as normal as you do now. If she has a problem with it than she is the wrong one.

                  Kris if she wants more

                  In which direction do you mean with more?

                  Kris Angelina and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

                  Not really

                  So there is the problem of not having discussed really everything and now you a afraid to either lose a potential gf
                  and/or your keyholder?

                  Kris Saintprudence Exactly 🙂 And my keyholder is doing a veeeeery good job and I love her

                  Maybe that makes everything a lot easier:
                  Could you image having a gf who doesn't like to keep you belted? If not, then you shouldn't worry about telling
                  her about yout belt too much because there wouldn't be much to lose for you.

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                    Kris Because she likes girls more 😃

                    ah ok, then you really have to find someone else, too bad

                    Kris Not really

                    you should discuss this

                    Kris I'm scared of the reaction, if she wants more

                    if she wants more, she has to accept that she doesn't get it at the moment. that's how you can see if a relationship really makes sense. it's not a good relationship if one partner always gets everything and the other has to give up his convictions for it.

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                    Kris If anybody wants to talk more of the other stuff, its better to write via Mail

                    If you don't mind I'd be happy if the moderators can exchange our email adresses as I would like to talk a bit about setting up a contract which might not be on topic here and not interesting for everyone.

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