I need your advice

Kris I signed it and I have to obey these rules, even if I dont't like all of them.

Just to understand this correctly, I hope you did sign it willingly and when you signed it did like all the rules or could
accept that they were neccesary?
In general I think the whole topic is interesting because whoever has a keyholder might get to the point where he or
she wants to get engaged with another person. Then the question is how this conflict can be solved.
I hope you won't have to face the unpleasent situation to make a decision for or against one person.

Kris Yes I am. I signed it and I have to obey these rules, even if I dont't like all of them. Maybe I will write more whats in the contract later

that makes it a bit more difficult if this relationship will be successful. i don't think she will accept it in the long run if someone restricts your and therefore also her sexuality.

Kris No, she already said, that nothing will change, when I got engaged with a girl.

I assume you mean regar ding the rules and not regarding that the new girl might get the keys or you might get released entirely?

Kris I don't have the key, so I have to accept the rules.

Is this still ok for you even if you wish to start a relationship with another girl?
What would happen if you wanted to get rid of your belt because you are no longer happy with your keyholder?

Kris I don't have the key, so I have to accept the rules.

You have not to accept it. If you want to end it say it. Worse case you have to pick the lock or open it with a proper tool.

Joh what I’m sort of reading between the lines with Kris is a viewpoint similar to my own: he doesn’t REALLY have to accept the ultimately self-imposed rules, but he prefers to FEEL that he has to.

Kris Exactly And my keyholder is doing a veeeeery good job and I love her

You are fortunate indeed to be a chastity devotee with a key holder who takes the job seriously!

Kris I’ve been around the block a few times. I get your meaning .

Kris Yes, but I have no other option

then that is only possible if your partner would accept it. or a key holder exchange? sorry but i am just imagining the situation from the point of view of your potential partner, not simple

Kris It was my wish to be belted and we both defined the rules. Don't worry

and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

Joh When you love her why are you searching for a GF

To be honest, I'm really asking myself this question @Kris?

Kris Because she likes girls more

Valid argument.

Kris Have you talked about chastity again with your potential new GF? Any updates?

@Kris I don't need to know all about you but what keeps happening with Chastity is if you are afraid of your belt the other person will be afraid because you are afraid. If you are cool with it then they will be cool with it.
Don't try to plan or mention it at all then you wont think about the time you spend meeting him (or her)

Kris Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction

Why you than scared? Handle it as normal as you do now. If she has a problem with it than she is the wrong one.

Kris if she wants more

In which direction do you mean with more?