Michael you did sign it willingly

Yes, I did!

Angelina Yes, but I have no other option πŸ™‚

Michael accept that they were neccesary?

I don't have the key, so I have to accept the rules.

Michael decision for or against one person

No, she already said, that nothing will change, when I got engaged with a girl.

    Kris No, she already said, that nothing will change, when I got engaged with a girl.

    I assume you mean regar ding the rules and not regarding that the new girl might get the keys or you might get released entirely?

    Kris I don't have the key, so I have to accept the rules.

    Is this still ok for you even if you wish to start a relationship with another girl?
    What would happen if you wanted to get rid of your belt because you are no longer happy with your keyholder?

    Kris I don't have the key, so I have to accept the rules.

    You have not to accept it. If you want to end it say it. Worse case you have to pick the lock or open it with a proper tool.

      Joh what I’m sort of reading between the lines with Kris is a viewpoint similar to my own: he doesn’t REALLY have to accept the ultimately self-imposed rules, but he prefers to FEEL that he has to.

        Kris Exactly πŸ™‚ And my keyholder is doing a veeeeery good job and I love her πŸ™‚

        You are fortunate indeed to be a chastity devotee with a key holder who takes the job seriously!

          Saintprudence Yes, she is a bit more than a keyholder, but that is nothing to write here in the forum. If anybody wants to talk more of the other stuff, its better to write via Mail πŸ™‚

            Kris I love her

            When you love her why are you searching for a GF πŸ˜‰
            I am joking 🀣
            Than is all fine. πŸ‘οΈ

              Joh Don't trigger me 🀣 No. πŸ™‚ She loves me too but in a special way πŸ™‚

              Kris Yes, but I have no other option πŸ™‚

              then that is only possible if your partner would accept it. or a key holder exchange? sorry but i am just imagining the situation from the point of view of your potential partner, not simple

              Kris It was my wish to be belted and we both defined the rules. Don't worry πŸ™‚

              and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

              Joh When you love her why are you searching for a GF πŸ˜‰

              To be honest, I'm really asking myself this question @Kris?

                Angelina To be honest, I'm really asking myself this question

                Because she likes girls more πŸ˜ƒ

                Angelina and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

                Not really

                  Kris Because she likes girls more

                  Valid argument.

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                    Kris Have you talked about chastity again with your potential new GF? Any updates?

                      @Kris I don't need to know all about you but what keeps happening with Chastity is if you are afraid of your belt the other person will be afraid because you are afraid. If you are cool with it then they will be cool with it.
                      Don't try to plan or mention it at all then you wont think about the time you spend meeting him (or her)

                        Sara2001 Have you talked about chastity again with your potential new GF? Any updates?

                        No updates :/

                        Megan Thanks Megan. I'm not afraif of the belt and I'm willed to wear it for my potential girlfriend. Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction, if she wants more

                          Kris Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction

                          Why you than scared? Handle it as normal as you do now. If she has a problem with it than she is the wrong one.

                          Kris if she wants more

                          In which direction do you mean with more?

                          Kris Angelina and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?

                          Not really

                          So there is the problem of not having discussed really everything and now you a afraid to either lose a potential gf
                          and/or your keyholder?

                          Kris Saintprudence Exactly πŸ™‚ And my keyholder is doing a veeeeery good job and I love her

                          Maybe that makes everything a lot easier:
                          Could you image having a gf who doesn't like to keep you belted? If not, then you shouldn't worry about telling
                          her about yout belt too much because there wouldn't be much to lose for you.

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