Kris No, she already said, that nothing will change, when I got engaged with a girl.
I assume you mean regar ding the rules and not regarding that the new girl might get the keys or you might get released entirely?
Kris I don't have the key, so I have to accept the rules.
Is this still ok for you even if you wish to start a relationship with another girl?
What would happen if you wanted to get rid of your belt because you are no longer happy with your keyholder?
Joh what I’m sort of reading between the lines with Kris is a viewpoint similar to my own: he doesn’t REALLY have to accept the ultimately self-imposed rules, but he prefers to FEEL that he has to.
Joh It was my wish to be belted and we both defined the rules. Don't worry 
Saintprudence Exactly And my keyholder is doing a veeeeery good job and I love her
Kris Exactly
You are fortunate indeed to be a chastity devotee with a key holder who takes the job seriously!
Saintprudence Yes, she is a bit more than a keyholder, but that is nothing to write here in the forum. If anybody wants to talk more of the other stuff, its better to write via Mail
Kris I’ve been around the block a few times. I get your meaning .
Kris Yes, but I have no other option
then that is only possible if your partner would accept it. or a key holder exchange? sorry but i am just imagining the situation from the point of view of your potential partner, not simple
Kris It was my wish to be belted and we both defined the rules. Don't worry
and was there also a special rule in case you found a partner?
Joh When you love her why are you searching for a GF
To be honest, I'm really asking myself this question @Kris?
@Kris I don't need to know all about you but what keeps happening with Chastity is if you are afraid of your belt the other person will be afraid because you are afraid. If you are cool with it then they will be cool with it.
Don't try to plan or mention it at all then you wont think about the time you spend meeting him (or her)
Sara2001 Have you talked about chastity again with your potential new GF? Any updates?
No updates :/
Megan Thanks Megan. I'm not afraif of the belt and I'm willed to wear it for my potential girlfriend. Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction, if she wants more
Kris Wearing it for all these years, its like normal clothing to me and I don't think all the time of it, bit I'm scared of the reaction
Why you than scared? Handle it as normal as you do now. If she has a problem with it than she is the wrong one.
Kris if she wants more
In which direction do you mean with more?
So there is the problem of not having discussed really everything and now you a afraid to either lose a potential gf
and/or your keyholder?
Kris Saintprudence Exactly
Maybe that makes everything a lot easier:
Could you image having a gf who doesn't like to keep you belted? If not, then you shouldn't worry about telling
her about yout belt too much because there wouldn't be much to lose for you.
Kris Because she likes girls more
ah ok, then you really have to find someone else, too bad
Kris Not really
you should discuss this
Kris I'm scared of the reaction, if she wants more
if she wants more, she has to accept that she doesn't get it at the moment. that's how you can see if a relationship really makes sense. it's not a good relationship if one partner always gets everything and the other has to give up his convictions for it.
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