Laura She refused to give you the key?

Yeah

James Isn't your agreement that she has to?

Yes too

Philip Why were the keys not given over when you asked.

I dunno - I was conflicted myself. It was before 5am.

Philip What happend to you get unlocked

A bit after 7. Normal time I get unlocked.

Philip and what is stopping you taking off the belt.

Was just my own thoughts then.

Ines If I have understood you correctly throughout these years, at night your mother kept the key. I even asked you about it a few months ago.

Yes that's it. Mum and Dad have the keys. I've been wearing every night. They always have the keys I just don't wear at daytime - put it on in the afternoon mostly.

Ines today she acted as any keyholder would have done.

I so want to argue about this but really you are right and mum was right

                  Jen I so want to argue about this but really you are right and mum was right

                  Jen, from my point of view, do not beat yourself up, the weird thing is that this only happened to you once, which is to make you proud.
                  If you check my old posts you will see that I woke up my mother because of a huge itch that in the end was almost more psychological than real.
                  Calm down, and think about whether your mother acted as she really should have, and if you think she overindulged or abused, talk to her.
                  A girl is not born with a chastity belt, and if it does not make you happier or does not make you feel fulfilled, then it is better to leave it.

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                    Ines I think I know the situation

                    I'm glad I'm not alone😊

                        Jen I'm glad you're doing okay.
                        Crazy isn't it? 😁

                        You made me want to bust my belt out again but I'm not sure I'm in the right place for it at the moment. Been thinking about it lots though. My partner floated the idea of locking me up when he works away, in return for locking him up when he comes back. I like the second part but I'm not too enamoured with the first bit!

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                            Jen A bit after 7. Normal time I get unlocked.

                            I see now. You were supposed to be unlocked after 7, but your requested earlier.

                              @Jen

                              i read this a bit too late to help you, but i am glad that you are feeling better. i understand that you were angry with your mother in the beginning, but as i understood it you were unlocked 2 hours later, so enough time to get your head back and be aware of your goals. actually your mother helped you not to give up on your goal, kind of ironic 🙂

                              Jen 😆 Maybe soon... It's a rough trade though, 3 weeks of me being belted vs 1 week of him in a cage. Not sure it's worth it!

                                  Sin

                                  Agree.
                                  It is better if you take it for 4 weeks, but...
                                  However 3:1 is not bad, it seems that we can make our wild aussie girl, the tornado of the Outback, become a boring lady of the metropolis.

                                  Based on topics I already have an idea for a soap opera...
                                  "The Belt and the Wild Emu", "Belts and platypus" or "Belted Echidna" or something like that...

                                      Ines Better mood?

                                      🙂 yep

                                      Sin It's a rough trade though, 3 weeks of me being belted

                                      He's away! Like how is that rough? Like surely there's no need to not be belted when he isn't even there

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                                            Putting my belt on feels different.
                                            I can't just change my mind now - like it was something to help me before. Now it is like - I'm actuality not going to be allowed to take it off. I've already locked it. I feel like I didn't get to choose. Like it was all normal but now I've locked it - it's different.

                                              Jen was it in the longterm plan for it to become permanent?

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                                                  Philip Yikes no - I'm part time wearer. But permanent chaste. I've still got full say on it being unlocked except if I'm frustrated. And overnight - yeah I agreed they could assume there is no good reason.

                                                      Jen ah right fair enough. So you wear it overnight normally and when you are frustrated. Other than that you can ask for the keys?

                                                        Jen surely there's no need to not be belted when he isn't even there

                                                        That's exactly the reason why I shouldn't have to wear it... I need to keep myself occupied somehow!

                                                          Ines It is better if you take it for 4 weeks

                                                          lol whut?! You're evil!! 3 weeks at a time is more than enough!!

                                                            Jen So I wore it to school - won't do it again

                                                            Why did you wear it to school if you didn't have to?

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                                                                Jen I don't know what it means now - is it can't have the key till morning, or can't have the key if it's for the wrong reason. Just - like the idea of "can't have the key" - like I want to rebel but also it feels like that will be right sometimes.

                                                                You should be shamed every time you ask for the key.

                                                                    HHelen You should be shamed every time you ask for the key.

                                                                    I would be to wake my mom up at night unless I needed to clean. 😅