Single again chastity

Vanessa

saras Things have been more or less the same for me regarding chastity. I live at home still and with that comes certain 'underwear' as you know LOL.

Sorry for you!

saras I have a job now in a bar, not enough to move out just yet but am saving up.

When do you think you would have enough money to live on your own?

saras I am still with my gf and she knows about my gear now.

Good!🙂

saras kinda hot that i can only focus on her pleasure not mine

Do you think she may ask you to continue wearing it?

saras She has met my dad

Technically,he had already met her during the holidays,right?

Christine This part is more important.

More than a new boyfriend?

Christine And get it back after? I need a long term solution.

Yes.

I don't think it would be a good solution.

Angelina can't you live with your girlfriend ?

It would be surprising,they don't date since a long time.

Angelina

Vanessa It would be surprising,they don't date since a long time.

yes, admittedly it is not very long, but they seem to be very much in love and it would help her to be able to escape from the equipment at least for the time being 😉

Christine

Angelina currently it seems to me that this is not the case enough

Right.

Angelina you should not be with someone you do not love

Or keep wearing a belt with someone you love.

Vanessa More than a new boyfriend?

If I had enough money I wouldn't need a new boyfriend.

saras

Vanessa When do you think you would have enough money to live on your own?

I am not sure yet, especially with covid uncertainty

Vanessa Do you think she may ask you to continue wearing it?

I hope not!!!

Vanessa Technically,he had already met her during the holidays,right?

Yes but only in passing, it is 'formal now'

Angelina yes, admittedly it is not very long, but they seem to be very much in love and it would help her to be able to escape from the equipment at least for the time being

It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

Vanessa

Angelina

Even if in love,it is rare to live together so quickly.

Angelina

Vanessa Even if in love,it is rare to live together so quickly.

that's right, maybe you can also arrange it with a room of her own, if there is enough space.

Vanessa

Angelina

It would be close to living together.

Christine Or keep wearing a belt with someone you love.

Totally right....

I know it well...🙁

But it is not your case,presently,so not an argument you could use.

Christine If I had enough money I wouldn't need a new boyfriend.

Getting both would be better!🙂

Angelina If you do not want to continue wearing the belt in the relationship, he has to accept that.

I think she meant having to wear her belt even if she has a new boyfriend,as long as she lives in her mother's house.

Angelina

Christine Or keep wearing a belt with someone you love.

If you do not want to continue wearing the belt in the relationship, he has to accept that.

Christine Right.

as i said before your mother should care more about your happiness. that doesn't have to mean that she gives up the belt, but she should want to talk to you about when you are feeling bad and how you can become independent again.

Christine

Angelina If you do not want to continue wearing the belt in the relationship, he has to accept that.

Two different issues.

Angelina and how you can become independent again.

She can't help with it.

Vanessa Getting both would be better!

But I wouldn't depend on him.

Angelina

Vanessa It would be close to living together.

yes, but so that everyone still has some private space

Vanessa Getting both would be better!🙂

I agree 🙂

Vanessa I think she meant having to wear her belt even if she has a new boyfriend,as long as she lives in her mother's house.

ah ok, yes i assume that, but then there are two options. either to accept it or to try to live together.

Angelina

Christine She can't help with it.

maybe not materially but psychologically. by the belt she rather strengthens the dependency. i would suggest a deal. the belt as long as you live with her, but she tries everything so that you don't live with her longer than necessary.

Christine

Angelina but she tries everything so that you don't live with her longer than necessary.

Well, if she pays my rent she will also require the belt.

Joh

saras It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

Take your time. To jump in a relation only to get out of the belt is not a good reason.

Angelina

saras It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

that's ok of course, a relationship has to develop first, but over a longer period of time you should consider this as an alternative.

Christine Well, if she pays my rent she will also require the belt.

i rather meant that she might be able to support you professionally in some way. maybe there is a job in her company that you can do to earn your own money

Christine

Angelina i rather meant that she might be able to support you professionally in some way. maybe there is a job in her company that you can do to earn your own money

She does in that sense.

Angelina

Christine She does in that sense.

what do you mean by "in this sense"? if you have a job, you should look for your own flat

Christine

Angelina what do you mean by "in this sense"?

She helps me to organize my life, like find a job, etc.

Angelina if you have a job, you should look for your own flat

Not enough.

Angelina

Christine She helps me to organize my life, like find a job, etc.

Christine Not enough.

so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference.

James

Angelina so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference

I honestly don’t get Christine. I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

Joh

James I get the same impression.

Angelina

James

it is similar to @Helen and @Renita, she usually writes very short answers, which would not be a problem if they were clear, but this makes it difficult. but i will still try to help if possible. 🙂

Laura

James I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

She wants to move out

Christine

James I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

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