Single again chastity

Christine She can't help with it.

maybe not materially but psychologically. by the belt she rather strengthens the dependency. i would suggest a deal. the belt as long as you live with her, but she tries everything so that you don't live with her longer than necessary.

Vanessa When do you think you would have enough money to live on your own?

I am not sure yet, especially with covid uncertainty

Vanessa Do you think she may ask you to continue wearing it?

I hope not!!!

Vanessa Technically,he had already met her during the holidays,right?

Yes but only in passing, it is 'formal now'

Angelina yes, admittedly it is not very long, but they seem to be very much in love and it would help her to be able to escape from the equipment at least for the time being

It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

Angelina but she tries everything so that you don't live with her longer than necessary.

Well, if she pays my rent she will also require the belt.

saras It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

Take your time. To jump in a relation only to get out of the belt is not a good reason.

saras It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

that's ok of course, a relationship has to develop first, but over a longer period of time you should consider this as an alternative.

Christine Well, if she pays my rent she will also require the belt.

i rather meant that she might be able to support you professionally in some way. maybe there is a job in her company that you can do to earn your own money

Angelina i rather meant that she might be able to support you professionally in some way. maybe there is a job in her company that you can do to earn your own money

She does in that sense.

Angelina what do you mean by "in this sense"?

She helps me to organize my life, like find a job, etc.

Angelina if you have a job, you should look for your own flat

Not enough.

Christine She helps me to organize my life, like find a job, etc.

Christine Not enough.

so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference.

Angelina so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference

I honestly don’t get Christine. I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

James

it is similar to @Helen and @Renita, she usually writes very short answers, which would not be a problem if they were clear, but this makes it difficult. but i will still try to help if possible.

James I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

Last.

Christine Last.

what do you mean??

Angelina what do you mean??

To be unbelted.

Christine To be unbelted.

the deal was that you wear the belt as long as you need her help, she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

Angelina she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

She wants me to keep wearing the belt even if I don't depend on her. Ofc I'm not going to.

Christine

but that wasn't what was meant at the beginning, was it? wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her? so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Angelina wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her?

I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

Angelina so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Right, and I will not.