just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Sasha

Padre All a matter of perspective really. One way we hate something another way we enjoy it

MissBlossom

Padre
I've heard it said that sometimes our kinks provide a safe way to face and process our fears, our pain, and our trauma.

If you believe this, there are no surprises here.

Tjc

Angelina I am glad you and your wife did Locktober and that it went well. It seems like you learned things about yourself and about the belt experience. Thank you for sharing your experience here. The more information we can all share, the better the forum becomes.

Angelina

Padre September 26th, 2019 you wrote:

well, that was 5 years ago, i was in a completely different situation back then, that was the ‘high phase’ of my chastity with permanently all devices and shortly before i met my current wife. i didn't know then how long i would have to endure all this, today i approach these things much more liberated

Tjc The more information we can all share, the better the forum becomes.

that's why i'm here to read and (if there's anything relevant) share experiences. of course i haven't had that many updates on the topic since my wedding, but if there's something exciting i'm happy to discuss it 🙂

Spork

Angelina my current wife

Ah, this use of English by non-native speakers always amuses me. "My current wife" strongly implies you're going to divorce her and get a new one at some point. You'd say "my now-wife" if you're talking about someone who is presently your wife but who was not at an earlier time, if you don't want to suggest that this is a temporary state of affairs.

Rina

Spork If you explore Japanese language it kind of gets worse. (Two things literally translates to "love person" means completely different things!)

If you use 愛人 (pronounced "aijin"), which literally translates to "love person", it refers to "mistress" or "someone you have affairs with", implying that you are cheating on your partner. (Some non-Japanese people may use this to refer to partner, since 愛 means love so they may think it's a correct way to refer to their partner) The proper way to introduce someone you genuinely love in Japan is to use word 恋人 (pronounced "koibito"), which means similar but it is correct word to refer to your partner.

Angelina

Spork

i am not particularly skilled in english rhetoric, i simply translated the german word ‘aktuelle’ 😂

Greatcornbow Maybe give ir a rest for now but do it again next Locktober?

It remains to be seen whether I will do the Locktober again, it's actually too long for me to do without orgasms for a whole month and it's too ‘fetish-connoted’ for me. I think if the belt plays a role, it has to fit into normal everyday life.
but we will see 😉

Padre After that month a nuclear explosion to release all that build up energy. 😆

that's right, it took 6 days and it's still not over 😃

Greatcornbow

Angelina ell, now the belt and the bra are packed away in a box again. I have to say it was a real relief this morning in many ways. Now we are enjoying our sex life again and we will have discussions about whether and how the belt might play a further role, but i don't want to go a whole month without an orgasm for now.

Maybe give ir a rest for now but do it again next Locktober? Maybe so could your partner and you could enhance experience by both being naked at home whenever possible?

Padre

Angelina the belt might play a further role, but i don't want to go a whole month without an orgasm for now. 😃

You must be full of energy after such a month since it could build without interruptions. After that month a nuclear explosion to release all that build up energy. 😆

Mr-TM

Angelina that's right, it took 6 days and it's still not over

😆

youdontknowme

Angelina that's right, it took 6 days and it's still not over 😃

Looks like your wife benefits from keeping you locked and needy as well - particularly if you made sure she did not miss out while you were locked as well 😛

Also, in German, "meine aktuelle Ehefrau" also sounds very much like you are not expecting the marriage to last very long.

Mr-TM

youdontknowme Also, in German, "meine aktuelle Ehefrau" also sounds very much like you are not expecting the marriage to last very long.

Well, "my future ex" would probably describe it better. 😆

Angelina

youdontknowme Looks like your wife benefits from keeping you locked and needy as well - particularly if you made sure she did not miss out while you were locked as well 😛

i can already see that quite a few people want me back in the belt as soon as possible, but we haven't discussed or decided anything yet, i want to let some time pass first 😆

Mr-TM Well, "my future ex" would probably describe it better. 😆

i had to find some formulation for my wife who was not yet my wife at the time 😂

Padre

Angelina i can already see that quite a few people want me back in the belt as soon as possible

You cannot deny bursting with energy the result was fabulous. Both of you liked it. Better charge for a full month locked in the belt and bra for best effect. And thighbands plus extra week belt and bra time when you were naughty. 🤣

Angelina

Padre

don't give us too many ideas 😂

youdontknowme

your post brings me directly to a small update.

so my wife and i talked a bit and exchanged ideas about what happened last month. we both realised that we really liked it and we would like to develop a concept for how we want to integrate the belt in the future. However, we don't want to start until the new year, so there won't be the belt for me this year. So over the next few weeks we will try to develop something that fits and if we are still ready and willing on New Year's Eve, then we want to start. so we still have some time to think about it.

PS: I don't know if I can do it myself, but @Laura can now remove the Humor tag, it does seem to be getting more serious now 😉

youdontknowme

I will refrain from trying to get another person to act out my fantasies like that. I will not suggest specifics unless asked to do so. But it seems very clear to me that you have found a way to turn this item into something both you and your wife can enjoy, but you still need to figure out the specifics. That is fine, take all the time you need. You do not need to prove yourselves to anyone, just do what feels right for now.

Laura

Angelina PS: I don't know if I can do it myself, but @Laura can now remove the Humor tag, it does seem to be getting more serious now

Removed

Padre

Angelina don't give us too many ideas 😂

You have a free membership to CBA (= Chastity Belt Adventures) 😂

Now you had loctober. Next Denial Decade in belt and bra starting January 1st 2025 at 00:00 hour (happy new year 🎆🎇🥂) 😆

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