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Vanessa

Even if he's sweet and romantic,I think taking control without your consent is a form of abuse.If you were ok before,you talked about it a lot,why not,but,as it seems it wasn't the case,I think it is not good at all.

What is the second reason?

Ines

I wonder too.

Angelina think it is very bad that in our modern society women should not have equal rights in marriage 🙁
I find it very hard to be happy with that 🙁

Especially if without her consent.If the wife likes it,it's ok,but if it is not the case,that's very wrong.

Sara2001

Vanessa I think taking control without your consent is a form of abuse.If you were ok before,you talked about it a lot,why not,but,as it seems it wasn't the case,I think it is not good at all.

Generally I think the same, but if you go into a marriage without beeing forced by someone after this conditions during the engagement, it feels consensual from this point.

I think she could quit the engagement anytime she wants, but she didn't.

Angelina

Sara2001

Sara, good that you're writing about this 😉

I am very worried about @Mary, I am afraid that the engagement is based on serious abuse 🙁

but I always remember that I thought the same thing about Daniel in the beginning and you were able to convey the positive aspects of your relationship to me 😉

so I don't want to be prejudiced and hope that Mary will write again 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001

I agree;she should have quit the relationship when it was forced,if she didn't want it.

Mary I'm happily married

It's the main point.If you're happy like it,it is ok.

Mary The used belt goes into the dishwasher and I put on a fresh, clean one.

It doesn't damage it?

Mary The biggest problem I have is with the thighbands and chastity bra when he goes on business trips. When I'm wearing only the belt, I can do my cardio and pilates. But when he has me wearing accessories, that becomes impossible. So when he's out of town I can't exercise. I don't like those down times.

How long does it last,generally?

Lea Yes I am afraid of it :/

Let's hope it won't happen.You'll know it soon,anyway.

Ines But for sure @strictfather will be glad with it.

😉

Nataly

Welcome!

Nataly

So,you accepted it reluctantly?

Renita Epidemic of chastity belts recently 😃

To be able to wear it often/permanently when the hot times come back.People tend to be more "sexual" in Spring or Summer,I think.

Amira No, they don't require me to wear it permanent, at least not yet. My stepdad says it would be the easiest but I disagree. I said that I need time without it for cleaning and other things. Mom agreed with me that I can not wear it without breaks.

So,you still have some influence on it?

Amira Umm, no one so far said any word about masturbation so I think they have it not on their mind that I do it. I think I better not ask about it. What do you think?

If you have to use the secondary shield,it is partly for it,I think(even if it can prevents some sort of sex,too).

Nataly I was told i am going to wear it till marriage 🙁 and no breaks, have it all the time on me.

Sorry for you!🙁

Mary

Ok,I can understand his idea,even if I find it a bit extreme,especially if the engagement was long...I understand it was awful to not be able to have sex with him,if you were used to(it happened to me when used as a punishment,unable to have sex with my boyfriend/girlfriend anymore,but it was for some weeks).

I imagine the honeymoon was wonderful,however.

Laura I assume he still had the key and could open you anytime. The last step could be to hand the key to somebody else as one my friend did

He probably could open her belt but didn't want to.

Laura Did you ever regret you were not a real virgin on your wedding?

Good question.

Angelina i'm not worried in winter with you 😉, i think in summer it's more likely 🙁

Why?

Laura if a girl gets her belt broken

It should not happen often...

Mary

I'll bundle the answers to several questions into this post. I'm happily married and wear the belt 24x7. It only comes off when he wants it off. That, and also every morning and most evenings when I shower - supervised. The used belt goes into the dishwasher and I put on a fresh, clean one.

The biggest problem I have is with the thighbands and chastity bra when he goes on business trips. When I'm wearing only the belt, I can do my cardio and pilates. But when he has me wearing accessories, that becomes impossible. So when he's out of town I can't exercise. I don't like those down times.

Our marriage is wonderful, much happier than most of my friends'. Since we know who makes the decisions, we never argue about it. Yes, I know it's politically incorrect for me to say, but I don't have equal rights and that's just fine. He's sweet and usually make decisions that will make me happy. What's wrong with that?

Laura

Mary The biggest problem I have is with the thighbands and chastity bra when he goes on business trips.

Did you also have to wear these accessories during the engagement or it was something new for you?

Ines

Mary The used belt goes into the dishwasher

Dishwasher? It have to be nice for neoprene...
But for sure @strictfather will be glad with it.

Mary I put on a fresh, clean one.

And the old is hung to dry, I guess.

Sara2001

Mary Thank you for your answer. Are there any other rules or protocols you have to accept in your marriage? I would love to know anything. I'm sure there are many interesting aspects for me, because I think my (possible) marriage with my current boyfriend may have many similarities with yours. What happens if you don't follow the rules? How and who makes the rules and how big is your influence? It would be great if you can explain as much as you like 🙂

Renita

Mary he used belt goes into the dishwasher and I put on a fresh, clean one.

How many belts do you have in your wardrobe ?

Lea

Vanessa Yes I am afraid of it :/

Angelina Did you get it for birthday? 😮 Were you shocked?

Angelina

@Lea

yes i was very shocked 🙁 i got it for my birthday and i have to say that there could not have been a worse present for my 16th birthday 🙁
if you're scared of it, just ask 😉

@Mary

ok that sounds a little better and there is nothing wrong with it as long as it is acceptable for you 😉 but for most women it would not be

Lea

Angelina And did you also start to wear it on your birthday?

Nataly

Hi to everyone. I am Nataly, 16 years old. I am glad that I have found this forum and to know that I am not alone in this.

Angelina

Nataly

hello nataly, welcome to the forum 😃

would you like to describe your situation in more detail?

Nataly

Angelina hello and thank you! well, i am from the US, living with parents, and well...i used to masturbate a bit more and got caught few times so they decided to buy me the belt. i did not like the idea but i rather accepted it than to argue. so its been 3 weeks now for me.

Laura

Nataly i am from the US

What part of the US are you from?

Renita

Nataly so its been 3 weeks now for me.

Epidemic of chastity belts recently 😃

Nataly

Laura northwestern

Nataly

Renita Pardon?

Renita

Nataly @Lea, @lucy, @Lenka, @Amira got their belts month or so ago

Nataly

Renita Oh ok, I understand now.

Laura

Renita And you 😂

Lea

Renita true true :/

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