Are other people open about their chastity or is it a very secret thing for most ?
I suppose if people knew it stops question on why am I not dating etc
Kaitlyn's (MilkyMilo) Chastity journey
milkymilo yes it can be some kind of secret. But from other point of view why not be open if others respect you, your reasons to wear,...
I do not know how is it by other people's here, but usually I think knows others in family , maybe some others around with similar interests or lifestyle... Chastity lifestyle ( or how we can call it) is generally not so common.
And as can you see here on this forum too, not all people's respect others and their reasons...
Do you know if you cousin still wear belt?
Anne I do believe my cousing wears her belt, not sure whether full time or when her husband is working, He is a shift worker so I imagine he will lock her up when he is away at work.
thats what I thought, I mean I accept other people interests, gender identities and sexualities, religions etc. I mean I can see how chastity may be unique and different to someone and even strange but I cannot see how it is offensive in anyway as long as it is between consenting adults.
Yes it is the same with any community whether it is be a workplace, church , social club or craft club etc there is always those that want to impose their view of things on everyone else. I am a big believer in each to their own, you do you and I will do me. Just because my view or story or reasons differ from yours, doesn't make me wrong, just makes me human.
As I said as long as it is between consenting adults then we should be able to live out lives how we please
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milkymilo yes of course. I'm wearing belt almost 24/7 like you with some hygiene breaks. I'm also not alone who wear belt by us. I have Neosteel. You can ask no problem.
We can talk here or you can write me on my email chastegirl@tutanota.com
milkymilo in our family is it common that girls and women's usually wear belts. But nobody is forced, everybody feel and accept it like standart and normal.
Yes Neosteel belts are nice. Maybe more hard or heavy than yours but nice simple effective.
We can talk here or you can write me on my email chastegirl@tutanota.com
milkymilo no not really, guess you do not know what you are missing if you have not had it before
Does it means you did not explore your own sexuality and you don't know how an orgasm feels?
If yes, you will not miss it so much.
I suppose your sex drive is low and this makes is easier to handle.
You have sheep on the farm, which I think is common. Do you also cultivate fields with the usual crops such as maize, cereals, sunflowers or rape? Or do you have bees and produce honey?
What many farmers here do is build large solar panels and generate electricity. This was subsidised by the state. How is that with you?
Joh I have experienced orgasms yes I am shamed to say. They were pleasurable at the time but felt guilt and shame afterwards. And I think the later outweigh the pleasure s with the belt on at least I cannot have the temptation
Sex drive is low I suppose as at 19, I have not had intercourse but have kissed and performed oral pleasure on both a guy and a girl so rather limited experience. But maybe I am just fussy about who I like and am attracted to.
The farm is a high station farm and has sheep predominantly. But we also have a bed and breakfast attached and do farmstays. There is also a free range poultry setup and a few angus beef cattle
My uncle does have a few solar panels on the farm stay accommodation as ecotourism is quite big here. Most the power is line fed for the house and sheds and there is an only diesel generator that been there for years as a backup if the lines go down in a storm or something which has happened over the years. There are a few smaller generators as well we can take up to the old shepherd huts in the hills
The house is relatively new so well insulated compared to the old house. Most the heating is a wood stove and heat pumps, but if power goes out the wood stove is enough and if not bring out the big sweaters
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milkymilo They were pleasurable at the time but felt guilt and shame afterwards
Exploring your body is helpful and healthy, no reason to feel shame or guilt. Take that from a keyholder and chastity enthusiast^.
I think your current regime should include regular time for self care. Maybe every four weeks with your period? Most belted ladies take a break for a few days then, because who needs additional obstacles at that time of the month?
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milkymilo Me-time, privacy, time alone, for your body and soul, with no restrictions. And of course, no goals or achievements to be won. Stretch in the bathtub and reread your favourite novel, or try out mail ordered sex toys, no rules and constraints for a limited time, just once a month.