Belt fitting
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Jen getting there... bends easy enough sorting out where to bend is hard
It seems you would manage it with time,you have already improved it!
Jen It's cause I'm crazy but I like it
Your feelings about it seems to change more and more!
Jen No thanks that's your thing
However,it would be helpful,I think.
And may(or not)improve the trust,if he helps you with it.
Congratulations,for daring to wear it in the same piece than them,and for wearing it 4 hours!
How did you felt?
Jen Same lock but not clicked shut
The belt stays in place well enough if not shut?
Jen No none of that I just don't wanna talk yet
Take your time.Not talk about it before you're comfortable to do it.
I wonder a bit.
However,the more used to it you are,the more you're likely to do such mistakes.
doesn't hurt today but yeah taking a break
Jen oh no I've accidentally locked it what an I going to do
oh except actually I didn't because it's like the most important thing in the world
There's "accidentally" locking your belt and finding out what chastity is actually like.
There's being very careful not to lock your belt and maintaining personal control.
And then there's the conflict between the two.
Beware! Curiosity only has to get the better of you for a moment!!
Jen oh no I've accidentally locked it what an I going to do
in an emergency, ask your parents for the keys and if they refuse, break open the belt.
Jonas
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Jen
Are you going to lock it with your parent's padlock or with your own padlock? It's really good that you are taking as much time as you need to fit the belt properly, but I am worried you'll seal your fate by mistake very soon.
In case you wondered, the next sentence of the story said, "She gently fingered the bolt, wondering what it would be like...
SNAP. The lock had suddenly given under her fingers without warning."
Jen I'm just trying to make it comfortable for more than a few hours
There's a point where the fit is basically ok and comfort only develops with wear time as the body adapts.
Raziel "SNAP. The lock had suddenly given under her fingers without warning."
"The belt wants to be locked..."
As much as I approve of the ideal of chastity, I don't want @Jen to be freaked when all this leads her into the situation where she has to ask to be unlocked.
This is Foxies partner Angela
For the life of me I do not understand why you have the lock even near your belt. Surely it is so obvious that you would remove it, put it in a drawer (or the rubbish bin) and hold the belt by wrapping a thick strand of something like copper wire around the locking beg, or through the locking peg. With the malleable copper wire together so it holds in place. Or tape the damned thing together with duct tape of even Scotch tape. Even purchase your own lock and use that. But keeping the lock in place waiting for an accident is just ridiculous.
Or is this just leading up to a story of "Wups"?
Foxies by this point, she’s well past the “thinking about it” stage. I’m not saying she WANTS the belt, but in between the increases in wearing, the work to get it to fit, and living dangerously with the lock, it’s at least on her mind.
This is Foxies partner Angela
It DOES seem like she wants the experience of being locked in by someone to the point where she cannot just asked to be unlocked. But it also seems that the last person(s) she wants to be controlled by is a parent. It does seem strange though that she can't just buy a lock, click it shut and mail the keys to herself so she loses control but just for a few days - which is a common story plot line.
Jen, if you read this, I am sorry if I sound harsh. But there are vulnerable youngsters here that you are influencing. Please be careful.
Hi Angela
Foxies For the life of me I do not understand why you have the lock even near your belt.
Omg everyone is saying be careful but it's all about nothing. Feels like you've read other comments and think it's somehow a problem
Foxies purchase your own lock
People keep saying this - it's not that easy - needs the corner cut off so it will turn.
Foxies copper wire around the locking beg, or through the locking peg.
Actually I like this I checked bunnings has copper picture hanging wire. The peg has a groove for the lock so yeah wire could be good.
Saintprudence by this point, she’s well past the “thinking about it” stage.
Ya think urgh it's all thinking thinking. The parents thing is like a pressure in my head when i think cause it's not fair and like Sin said it's weird but i want like what Ines has - there I said it everyone gonna say don't now. But like it's not guilt or church - but staying virgin is what i want but am i only being half - but yeah I'm trying the belt cause that's easy
Jen if you want to stay a virgin, which is quite laudable, you can just not have sex. A belt is a pretty extreme way to approach that, let alone parental control when you’re an adult. (Indeed, if you outsource protection of your virginity to a device rather than willpower, it makes you all the more vulnerable if the device fails.)
I sometimes get the impression you’re feeling guilty about the earlier promise you made, but a promise made under duress is not a real promise. I’d urge you to let go of any concern you have there.
Jen but staying virgin is what i want
If you want this try it with willpower as Saintprudence sad.
If you think you will not reject every possible opportunity and you like the belt go for it. It is your live and your decision. No one shall judge you for it because you informed yourself, tested the belt, you know of the drawbacks and you decided on a good base.