Been gone a while
Vanessa Maybe you can explain her this board should be an exception,as it helps you about your chastity.
Even though my own chastity is up and running, this forum is still a great help to me... ...it's just that I have other problems to deal with too!! Eg: I need to be more physically active, I need to curb my spending, etc etc.
So, I will still have access to this board I think, but the time I spend on here must be limited.
Vanessa It is a lot of measures to avoid doing it anymore!
Some of the stuff makes sense though. I see girls taking massages after sports and the guy runs his hand all the way up in between your legs so he's two inches and a thin piece of cloth from touching your genitals. That doesn't help you remain chaste. Or going out to bars and getting half drunk. No wonder things happen.
Vanessa You do it to get the benefits,mainly(better grades,better at running,etc...)?
Yes and it's working with my grades and my running, I have actual proof with test results and running times. Plus it feels good to know that when I do have a guy I will be able to give him something nobody else had had, at least for a whle.
Vanessa Until married or for a set duration?
I know I won't last 'til I'm married. That could be half a dozen years. But I'd like to stay away from too much masturbation and hold out for a guy I really am serious about.
Jonas This is what I've found too... the belt is only a part of it. Successful chastity, long term, needs lots of things to be in place, not just a belt.
Definitely what I've found, it's a lifestyle. I've benefitted by reading some of the nofap stuff and no nut November. You need to set yourself up to succeed. I don't know what will happen to me next summer.
Vanessa And they can't influence it,but make the relationship difficult to keep enough(not allowed to meet,going back straight home,rarely allowed to go out unsupervised,checking regularly my phone,etc...)to make it fail.Specially as it is the start of the relationship,so still not very strong.
that's true, but it's not always the case. i fell in love with camryn when we were just video chatting and after the first date i would have already fought extremely for the relationship. i just don't think that's right.
Vanessa Yes,but,when she was trying to wear it more often,do you opened it yourself sometimes?And especially the last time it was opened?
the belt was never in my possession, either camryn had worn it or it was at her home
carg You could of course decide not to answer every post
(except mine, obviously
)
i don't answer every post but when there are over 200 new posts in the forum like today and i only answer half of them then ....uff already almost 2 hours (luckily i have a lot of time today) 
Laura Why not? If you wear your belt all the time
I'm going to do this honestly (if I can). I'm willing to accept some help, like cold showers or leaving the door open so I can't masturbate and maybe even wearing the belt and locking the key in a block of ice but I have shown myself I can do difficult things and this is just one more. Needing a belt to do it I consider a sign of weakness in me, though not in others. Judge not least ye also ....
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Funguy My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys if he's okay with being belted and she wants him belted.
I'm uncertain on how I should read this:
1) My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys if he's okay with being belted ; and she wants him belted.
or
2) My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys , if he's okay with being belted and (if) she wants him belted.
In other words, has your mother already expressed her wish to see him belted/caged (option 1)? Or is it just one of the conditions you assume for her to be OK with holding the keys (option 2)?
Joh Nice. Is open to everyone which letters a missing
It's interesting finding out what words in what languages can be used and where. E.g. I heard a commentator from the United Kingdom on a US TV station talking about words like bloody, wind, shagging, words that don't exist in the US version of English (well, wind does but it means something totally different in the UK). I don't remember what he said but some words can be used on the telly and some can't. Lots of people use the word I represented as f---ing but you can't say it on TV and I would never say it in front of my father. Shagging I could use. Also, I can say boobs and he doesn't mind but beware of tits.
Avery Also, I can say boobs and he doesn't mind but beware of tits.
I am just imagining a sign with tiny little birds with black head, blue wings and a yellow-green body, and beneath that the warning "beware of tits".
But of course, we know that not just tits are birds, but also boobies. And cocks.
Seems there is a reason we talk about the birds and the bees. Maybe it should be the birds and the cats instead, though.
youdontknowme But of course, we know that not just tits are birds, but also boobies. And cocks
In 2005 there was a man named Anthony Weiner who ran for mayor of New York City. Weiner can mean hot dog or penis in US slang. Supposedly all the TV announcers were rooting for him because then for four years they could say weiner on the air.
Didn't you?