Funguy My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys if he's okay with being belted and she wants him belted

Would it work the same way if you had a relationship with a girl?

Avery I know I won't last 'til I'm married

Why not? If you wear your belt all the time

        Laura Why not? If you wear your belt all the time

        I'm going to do this honestly (if I can). I'm willing to accept some help, like cold showers or leaving the door open so I can't masturbate and maybe even wearing the belt and locking the key in a block of ice but I have shown myself I can do difficult things and this is just one more. Needing a belt to do it I consider a sign of weakness in me, though not in others. Judge not least ye also ....

            Avery Needing a belt to do it I consider a sign of weakness in me,

            I see it in the same way. The belt can help in some situation but it is not the solution. The solution is to control yourself.

            • Jen replied to this.

                Avery I'm willing to accept some help, like cold showers or leaving the door open so I can't masturbate

                But how about relationships?

                    Laura But how about relationships?

                    In which way do you mean a relationship could help?
                    As far as I understand @Avery she will keep her cast until she found the right partner.

                        Laura But how about relationships?

                        I said in the Age To Begin thread "I want on my own to keep myself clean so when I meet a guy I really want I can give him something that's worth giving away." I have no objection to f-ing the right guy at the right time.

                            Joh As far as I understand @Avery she will keep her cast until she found the right partner.

                            Yup.

                            • Jen replied to this.

                                Avery I have no objection to f-ing the right guy at the right time.

                                Nice. Is open to everyone which letters a missing 😁

                                    Funguy My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys if he's okay with being belted and she wants him belted.

                                    I'm uncertain on how I should read this:
                                    1) My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys if he's okay with being belted ; and she wants him belted.
                                    or
                                    2) My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys , if he's okay with being belted and (if) she wants him belted.

                                    In other words, has your mother already expressed her wish to see him belted/caged (option 1)? Or is it just one of the conditions you assume for her to be OK with holding the keys (option 2)?

                                        Joh Nice. Is open to everyone which letters a missing

                                        It's interesting finding out what words in what languages can be used and where. E.g. I heard a commentator from the United Kingdom on a US TV station talking about words like bloody, wind, shagging, words that don't exist in the US version of English (well, wind does but it means something totally different in the UK). I don't remember what he said but some words can be used on the telly and some can't. Lots of people use the word I represented as f---ing but you can't say it on TV and I would never say it in front of my father. Shagging I could use. Also, I can say boobs and he doesn't mind but beware of tits.

                                            Avery Also, I can say boobs and he doesn't mind but beware of tits.

                                            I am just imagining a sign with tiny little birds with black head, blue wings and a yellow-green body, and beneath that the warning "beware of tits".

                                            But of course, we know that not just tits are birds, but also boobies. And cocks.

                                            Seems there is a reason we talk about the birds and the bees. Maybe it should be the birds and the cats instead, though.

                                                youdontknowme But of course, we know that not just tits are birds, but also boobies. And cocks

                                                In 2005 there was a man named Anthony Weiner who ran for mayor of New York City. Weiner can mean hot dog or penis in US slang. Supposedly all the TV announcers were rooting for him because then for four years they could say weiner on the air.

                                                    Avery It is interesting, especially if you are not a native speaker.
                                                    Bloody, I heard the first time in Australia and I don't know in which context it is used and what it really mean. I only know it not in a nice context.
                                                    f--ing in your sentence mean finding 🤨 Didn't you?

                                                        Avery Needing a belt to do it I consider a sign of weakness in me, though not in others.

                                                        I consider excessive masturbation, my own problem, to be a major weakness within me, but I consider the belt to be a solution. The belt is a part of me. Whether this now makes me some sort of cyborg I don't know! 🤣

                                                            Joh f--ing in your sentence mean finding 🤨 Didn't you?

                                                            That would do nicely. I think I'm going to start saying shagging. I like that word. We have a lot of time off this week. Someone to shag would come in handy.

                                                              Jonas I consider excessive masturbation, my own problem, to be a major weakness within me, but I consider the belt to be a solution.

                                                              Well it's definitely a tool. Whether it's the best long-term solution is a fuzzy.

                                                                Avery Weiner can mean hot dog or penis in US slang.

                                                                Only because you cannot distinguish Weiner (someone who cries) from Wiener (from Vienna). Still mildly irritated by the fact that Wienerschnitzel serves hot dogs, rather than Wiener Schnitzel, by the way.

                                                                But yeah, wiener puns are great. Though wieners are a bit too thin to really be a good stand-in for a penis. Much better to use a kielbasa. A Polish sausage for those that currently don't polish their sausage.

                                                                    youdontknowme Though wieners are a bit too thin to really be a good stand-in for a penis.

                                                                    Cucumbers are said to be a good substitute and they come in various widths. Just need to remember to take them out of the 'fridge in time to warm up a tad. Also I recall in the book Portnoy's Complaint (he was horny) Portnoy takes the chopped liver out of the fridge, fashions it into a replica of a vagina, takes his pleasure with it, washes it, puts it back in the fridge and that night his mother serves it to the family for dinner.

                                                                        Avery I have no objection to f-ing the right guy at the right time

                                                                        How would you know if he is right one?

                                                                            Laura How would you know if he is right one?

                                                                            I know a lot of guys, have been with a lot of guys. Haven't spent my time staying home protecting my virginity. I'm still learning but I have the means to make contact and get to know guys and size them up. And I'm in no hurry. Won't think about marriage 'til I'm 26. Tell us how you would do it.