Users, are you married or not, while in/out of chastity?
Avery So if everything is the same but the woman masturbates she is then not considered chaste?
I see it as a common relationship.
On the other hand in many relationship both do not masturbate. If they are happy with their sex it is not necessary.
If you look closely, it is only a question of how you see it. What is a big deal for some is something quite normal for others, without wanting to judge.
Joh If you look closely, it is only a question of how you see it. What is a big deal for some is something quite normal for others, without wanting to judge.
And I assure you I am not trying to judge, just understand. My experience is when I have a lover I am more likely to masturbate because I'm horny for him all the time. He is the image I have in mind to help get me off. I know men who feel that masturbating is a form of cheating, however. My brothers for example.
Avery My experience is when I have a lover I am more likely to masturbate because I'm horny for him all the time.
From my experience the same at the beginning but after some time (month) it decrease as long as you have a satisfying sex life.
Avery I know men who feel that masturbating is a form of cheating, however.
You should talk about with him and find a agreement which is good for both.
Like most people here Iām not married but still locked up. Belt may or may not come off after marriage although it probably will it depends on what me and my bf decide.
i have to change my comment because @strictfather ather voted for it. but it is still impressive how clearly the roles are distributed here in the forum.
Joh Let see what happen next year.
for me, the year after next, that's why i wanted to have the fifth possible answer. "Married and previously in chastity" 
Joh but it is also a gift from her to her husband to remain chaste (not to masturbate).
since i plan to get all my sexual happiness through camryn after my wedding, would i still be chaste by this definition?
Joh It is pretty much the difference between "chastity" and "enforced chastity". You are chaste whenever you do not engage in unapproved sexual activity, which in most cultures means you only have sex within a marriage or similarly committed relationship. You are celibate when you do not take steps to enter such a relationship, so only being chaste and celibate requires complete and utter sexual abstinence.
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I agree.
When we break it down the whole chastity we find that in a good working relationship it is happen.
Than I ask myself why is a CB than necessary? Because of the key holder has a trust problem!
If no trust is in a relation how much is the relation worth?
Joh When we break it down the whole chastity we find that in a good working relationship it is happen.
Than I ask myself why is a CB than necessary?
Perhaps in a BDSM style dom-sub relationship. The couple agree to be together with the dom having complete control over the sub, including locking her in a belt even though neither plans to stray from the relationship. It is just a thing they do that attracts them both.
I think it should be considered as chastity,yes.
Avery My brothers for example.
It's surprising.
Mine have no problem if his girlfriend masturbates.
Angelina i have to change my comment because @strictfather ather voted for it
It would be good if he give some news.
Angelina it is still impressive how clearly the roles are distributed here in the forum.
It is not surprising the most votes are "Not married (but still using chastity)" in a forum named unwed chastity,however.
Angelina would i still be chaste by this definition
Yes,but not in chastity.
I agree.
And i think a big part of customers of chastity belts use it this way(less than fetishists who use it as a game,however).
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Vanessa It would be good if he give some news.
yes, his last update was not very pleasant and he didn't write anything anymore.
Vanessa It is not surprising the most votes are "Not married (but still using chastity)" in a forum named unwed chastity,however.
yes, you are kind of right 
Vanessa Yes,but not in chastity.
the definitions are getting really complicated
Avery One more idea I had is to give a guy nude pictures of oneself which he could use to masturbate to, thus decreasing his demands for actual sex and help the girl remain chaste.
the idea is not bad
Avery Perhaps in a BDSM style dom-sub relationship. The couple agree to be together with the dom having complete control over the sub, including locking her in a belt even though neither plans to stray from the relationship. It is just a thing they do that attracts them both.
It is a very, very, VERY big difference between not having orgasms because you promised it to your partner without a chastity belt or to simply not be able to have an orgasm because you wear a chastity belt for him. It doesn't have much to do with trust. In both scenario a lot of trust in both directions is mandatory, but the feeling of being locked is a very powerful feeling.
Vanessa Mine have no problem if his girlfriend masturbates.
I have no problem when Daniel masturbates, too. I often help him with this 
Avery On the other hand if one wants ones lover, male or female, to be happy and they enjoy masturbation then mayhap one should let them go ahead.
For me it is an important part of the dynamic, that he not only can have orgasms whenever he wants, but that he really has them, while I stay locked and without orgasms for him. We can both completely focus on his pleasure and this feels very romantic and satisfying for me.
Avery One more idea I had is to give a guy nude pictures of oneself which he could use to masturbate to, thus decreasing his demands for actual sex and help the girl remain chaste.
I can give him oral and stay in chastity.