Please forgive me, Christine, I do occasionally enjoy my fun at your expense!
Single again chastity
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You'd just need to ask to wear your belt again as @Saintprudence says. Then do a mutual key exchange, or put both keys into the locker. You could even set up a pass code that each of you only knows half of!! 
Anyway, I think you see yourself as an external party applying your mother's own beliefs to her. But you also seem increasingly to share and agree with these beliefs! If you do end up thinking chastity is important, then the rules should apply to you too.
Thanks for answering all my questions. Sorry to be so nosy. Am fascinated by the switch-around that's taken place here.
Jonas You'd just need to ask to wear your belt again as @Saintprudence says.
Staying belted is the easiest thing in the world. Just step into it and close the lock. It’s everything else that’s hard!
Renita Christine's problem is that her mother has kept custody of her old chastity belt. She's told her that the only way she returns the belt to Christine's possession is around her waist and firmly locked. If she had time with the belt on her own, she might be able to alter it to escape. Her mother is wise not to allow her access to it. Even if she's not wearing it now, the day may come for it again.
Saintprudence
The difference is, that @Christine only wants to enforce no sex while her mother did not allow any masturbation either and kept her in complete chastity, not only sexual abstinence.
Saintprudence Staying belted is the easiest thing in the world. Just step into it and close the lock. It’s everything else that’s hard!
hihi, that's even true, only the time afterwards is difficult 
curious The difference is, that @Christine only wants to enforce no sex while her mother did not allow any masturbation either and kept her in complete chastity, not only sexual abstinence.
right and i wonder if @Christine would agree to wear the belt again for reasons of fairness if the mother "only" does not allow sex but does allow masturbation
Saintprudence She's told her that the only way she returns the belt to Christine's possession is around her waist and firmly locked.
Does she still require it?
Angelina if the mother "only" does not allow sex but does allow masturbation
I don't think that's gonna happen. Her mother seemed very firm about not permitting any orgasms, not just as a side effect of the belt but as one of the main purposes. So once @Christine is belted again, it probably means complete chastity.
I am more surprised, that Christine is not enforcing the same rule for her mother but rather limits the belt to the no sex aspect.
Renita last time Christine spoke of it, yes. Her mother does not want her to have access to the belt so she can’t interfere with the lock. Which is logical. The belt is not Christine’s property. It belongs to the keyholder, her mother, and if Christine wants it, it should be properly locked on.
curious I am more surprised, that Christine is not enforcing the same rule for her mother but rather limits the belt to the no sex aspect.
probably the mother would have refused otherwise and i think if @Christine had the same rules for herself then maybe she would be willing to accept a belt herself. i think no matter what, the rules should be the same for both of them
Angelina i think no matter what, the rules should be the same for both of them
Well her mother has set the rules in the first place, so that would mean @Christine would have to alter her position and keep her mother orgasm-free no matter if the mother complains about this. Not sure if that would work out given the dynamic between parent and child.
Saintprudence And I’m sure she’d prefer to see you kept secure yourself.
Yes, she would. As usual.
Saintprudence but it’s still not permitted while she’s belted
But permitted while she is not.
Jonas Then do a mutual key exchange
Mutual keyholding wouldn't work.
curious that @Christine only wants to enforce no sex while her mother did not allow any masturbation either and kept her in complete chastity
Right.
Angelina if @Christine would agree to wear the belt again for reasons of fairness
No such reason for me.
Renita Does she still require it?
Yes.
Saintprudence Her mother does not want her to have access to the belt so she can’t interfere with the lock.
She could order her own.
Renita I’m having a hard time imagining Christine ordering a belt to place around her own waist after all that time stuck in her mother’s belt and trying to get free!
or both wear the belt "only" to prevent sex. just because the mother set the rules first, it doesn't mean that both couldn't also live by @Christine's rules. 
Christine Mutual keyholding wouldn't work.
may i ask why it would not work?
Angelina Based on Christine's experiences here (out of the belt, clearly uninterested in going back in, all of us bugging her about it anyway), I hope you're ready for about six months of messages along the lines of "so when do you belt back up?" once your marriage is complete 
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Christine, I just spent the whole evening to read your and your mother’s story. So it took you three years to reverse the roles with your mother belted and you’re not. That’s an achievement, congratulations!
Renita She could order her own
Order a belt for myself? it defeats the whole idea.
Angelina may i ask why it would not work?
@Saintprudence explained below, coz I don't want her to hold my keys.
Mithras So it took you three years to reverse the roles with your mother belted and you’re not. That’s an achievement, congratulations!
Thank you. And I'm glad I was able to make such progress in my life.
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Christine explained below, coz I don't want her to hold my keys.
Do I understand that right: you’re not absolutely against wearing a chastitybelt, but mostly don’t want your mother as keyholder?
And don’t kill me now, but I think it would only be fair if you also wore a belt. After all, one main argument from you (and the crowd in this forum!) was that she should adhere to the same rules as you. Now she is denied pleasure by the belt but you are not, and you don’t follow the same rules as your mother.
Maybe you need to find a trustworthy keyholder for both your keys? Maybe the Saintprudence-Goody-way?