Single again chastity

Jonas If you are free to masturbate then a partner is free to give you an orgasm in the same way (and often others

But you are not free to masturbate near your partner.

curious Do you define 'chastity' as not having sex or not having any orgasm at all (so no masturbation either)?

Former.

Jonas To me, non penetrative sex is still a form of sex.

To me, too. That's why she has the secondary shield.

Jonas Is she happy with the way things have gone?

I doubt.

Jonas Will you ask her to go 24/7 at some point?

No, it's not my goal.

Jonas you should at least consider living by the same rules.

I don't see a way now.

Angelina the question is why this chastity came into play?

Coz she was interested in chastity belts in the first place.

Christine Jonas Is she happy with the way things have gone?

I doubt

Belted girls rarely are once the key leaves their hands. And I’m sure she’d prefer to see you kept secure yourself.

Christine curious Do you define 'chastity' as not having sex or not having any orgasm at all (so no masturbation either)?

Former.

Jonas To me, non penetrative sex is still a form of sex.

To me, too. That's why she has the secondary shield.

So you technically don’t object to her masturbating, but it’s still not permitted while she’s belted.

Christine Jonas you should at least consider living by the same rules.

I don't see a way now.

You could always request to be given your belt back . As she has said, she’ll be happy to return it if it’s firmly locked in place!

Please forgive me, Christine, I do occasionally enjoy my fun at your expense!

Jonas You'd just need to ask to wear your belt again as @Saintprudence says.

Staying belted is the easiest thing in the world. Just step into it and close the lock. It’s everything else that’s hard!

Christine I don't see a way now

Leave your keys in that "chastity safe".

Renita Christine's problem is that her mother has kept custody of her old chastity belt. She's told her that the only way she returns the belt to Christine's possession is around her waist and firmly locked. If she had time with the belt on her own, she might be able to alter it to escape. Her mother is wise not to allow her access to it. Even if she's not wearing it now, the day may come for it again.

Saintprudence
The difference is, that @Christine only wants to enforce no sex while her mother did not allow any masturbation either and kept her in complete chastity, not only sexual abstinence.

Saintprudence Staying belted is the easiest thing in the world. Just step into it and close the lock. It’s everything else that’s hard!

hihi, that's even true, only the time afterwards is difficult

curious The difference is, that @Christine only wants to enforce no sex while her mother did not allow any masturbation either and kept her in complete chastity, not only sexual abstinence.

right and i wonder if @Christine would agree to wear the belt again for reasons of fairness if the mother "only" does not allow sex but does allow masturbation

Saintprudence She's told her that the only way she returns the belt to Christine's possession is around her waist and firmly locked.

Does she still require it?

Renita last time Christine spoke of it, yes. Her mother does not want her to have access to the belt so she can’t interfere with the lock. Which is logical. The belt is not Christine’s property. It belongs to the keyholder, her mother, and if Christine wants it, it should be properly locked on.

curious I am more surprised, that Christine is not enforcing the same rule for her mother but rather limits the belt to the no sex aspect.

probably the mother would have refused otherwise and i think if @Christine had the same rules for herself then maybe she would be willing to accept a belt herself. i think no matter what, the rules should be the same for both of them

Angelina i think no matter what, the rules should be the same for both of them

Well her mother has set the rules in the first place, so that would mean @Christine would have to alter her position and keep her mother orgasm-free no matter if the mother complains about this. Not sure if that would work out given the dynamic between parent and child.

Saintprudence And I’m sure she’d prefer to see you kept secure yourself.

Yes, she would. As usual.

Saintprudence but it’s still not permitted while she’s belted

But permitted while she is not.

Jonas Then do a mutual key exchange

Mutual keyholding wouldn't work.

curious that @Christine only wants to enforce no sex while her mother did not allow any masturbation either and kept her in complete chastity

Right.

Angelina if @Christine would agree to wear the belt again for reasons of fairness

No such reason for me.

Renita Does she still require it?

Yes.

Saintprudence Her mother does not want her to have access to the belt so she can’t interfere with the lock.

She could order her own.

Renita I’m having a hard time imagining Christine ordering a belt to place around her own waist after all that time stuck in her mother’s belt and trying to get free!

curious

or both wear the belt "only" to prevent sex. just because the mother set the rules first, it doesn't mean that both couldn't also live by @Christine's rules.

Christine Mutual keyholding wouldn't work.

may i ask why it would not work?

Angelina Based on Christine's experiences here (out of the belt, clearly uninterested in going back in, all of us bugging her about it anyway), I hope you're ready for about six months of messages along the lines of "so when do you belt back up?" once your marriage is complete .

Christine, I just spent the whole evening to read your and your mother’s story. So it took you three years to reverse the roles with your mother belted and you’re not. That’s an achievement, congratulations!