@a_father @Renita @Abby82 @Laura A quote from wikipedia:

"Delayed gratification, or deferred gratification, describes the process that the subject undergoes when the subject resists the temptation of an immediate reward in preference for a later reward. Generally, delayed gratification is associated with resisting a smaller but more immediate reward in order to receive a larger or more enduring reward later. A growing body of literature has linked the ability to delay gratification to a host of other positive outcomes, including academic success, physical health, psychological health, and social competence."

    Laura Not realy.

    There are some sperging gammas on this forum who do not (want to) understand that there are people who have different values and priorities than them.

    They cannot and do not want to understand but insist on running other peoples live.

    🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

        Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

        i see it differently, living independently is something different than living with a partner/spouse

        Saintprudence I don’t want to derail from the topic any further!

        i did not understand the last posts on this topic anyway, so it is better if we stick to the topic 😂

              a_father Her sexuality is her own property.

              Would you say the same about your wife?

                  Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

                  Who it doesn't sound right to? Basically, who cares?

                      Tobbe

                      If opened to be erect often enough,there is not too much risk! 😉

                      Laura Not everybody, but most of them. Females, of course

                      So it is close to a family tradition,to wear it until marriage.Everyone were voluntary wearers or some were reluctantly wearers?

                      Christine

                      Right.

                      Renita

                      I agree.

                      Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

                      Why?I don't think it is a problem,and it is pretty common...

                      Angelina i see it differently, living independently is something different than living with a partner/spouse

                      I agree.

                      Abby82

                      Similar for many of us,some unsupervised breaks would be very helpful,even alone!

                      Laura

                      Even if still wearing your chastity belt?

                                        Vanessa Everyone were voluntary wearers or some were reluctantly wearers?

                                        I don't know such details, but nobody complained to me

                                        Vanessa Even if still wearing your chastity belt?

                                        They know it's virtually impossible

                                              Laura I don't know such details, but nobody complained to me

                                              You don't discuss it much?

                                              Laura They know it's virtually impossible

                                              Why?For cleaning?

                                                    Vanessa Why?I don't think it is a problem,and it is pretty common...

                                                    i think so too, living alone is an important part of living independently and the more independent we are the more likely we are to marry 🙂

                                                    Vanessa Why?For cleaning?

                                                    it is generally very difficult for cleaning, especially they do not know how far apart they live

                                                          HHelen Yes. Nobody owns another person.
                                                          When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another. @Laura didn't marry her parents. They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner. I don't know the reasons, but that has something to do with the fact that you can't let go of your daughter or treat her like your property. Very strange people..
                                                          Or maybe a very conservative denomination? There are a lot of evangelical Christians in the USA. You sometimes hear strange things. And as a Catholic, I am already considered conservative. However, I do not ask others to live by my values. As you can see from my statements, I put personal freedom above everything. My freedom ends where the freedom of the other (this includes our childrens freedom) begins. Some parents forget that here (like you, or @Laura's parents).

                                                              a_father When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another.

                                                              Would you let your wife to sleep around?

                                                              a_father @Laura didn't marry her parents.

                                                              Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter.

                                                              a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner.

                                                              Partner or husband? It's difficult only if you start a relationship with sex.

                                                                      HHelen Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter

                                                                      In your view, when does such responsibility end? Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

                                                                          Ines I will send you soon the members card.

                                                                          can you send me one too? 😉