29-year-old virgin

"Delayed gratification, or deferred gratification, describes the process that the subject undergoes when the subject resists the temptation of an immediate reward in preference for a later reward. Generally, delayed gratification is associated with resisting a smaller but more immediate reward in order to receive a larger or more enduring reward later. A growing body of literature has linked the ability to delay gratification to a host of other positive outcomes, including academic success, physical health, psychological health, and social competence."

Laura

Abby82 I see no problem in lauras lifestyle, living at parents has many pros.

An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right. That's the main reason.

Abby82 can have unsupervised breaks even

Yes, but I cann't have it together with someone 😂

reactionary69 This ? 😂

reactionary69

Laura Not realy.

There are some sperging gammas on this forum who do not (want to) understand that there are people who have different values and priorities than them.

They cannot and do not want to understand but insist on running other peoples live.

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Angelina

Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

i see it differently, living independently is something different than living with a partner/spouse

Saintprudence I don’t want to derail from the topic any further!

i did not understand the last posts on this topic anyway, so it is better if we stick to the topic 😂

Renita

Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

Who it doesn't sound right to? Basically, who cares?

Saintprudence

reactionary69 sperging gammas

I feel like there is context I am missing for this term.

HHelen

a_father Her sexuality is her own property.

Would you say the same about your wife?

a_father

HHelen Yes. Nobody owns another person.
When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another. @Laura didn't marry her parents. They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner. I don't know the reasons, but that has something to do with the fact that you can't let go of your daughter or treat her like your property. Very strange people..
Or maybe a very conservative denomination? There are a lot of evangelical Christians in the USA. You sometimes hear strange things. And as a Catholic, I am already considered conservative. However, I do not ask others to live by my values. As you can see from my statements, I put personal freedom above everything. My freedom ends where the freedom of the other (this includes our childrens freedom) begins. Some parents forget that here (like you, or @Laura's parents).

Laura

Renita To my family

Laura

Vanessa Everyone were voluntary wearers or some were reluctantly wearers?

I don't know such details, but nobody complained to me

Vanessa Even if still wearing your chastity belt?

They know it's virtually impossible

Angelina

Vanessa Why?I don't think it is a problem,and it is pretty common...

i think so too, living alone is an important part of living independently and the more independent we are the more likely we are to marry 🙂

Vanessa Why?For cleaning?

it is generally very difficult for cleaning, especially they do not know how far apart they live

Vanessa

Laura I don't know such details, but nobody complained to me

You don't discuss it much?

Laura They know it's virtually impossible

Why?For cleaning?

Laura

Vanessa You don't discuss it much?

We do, but not that part

Vanessa Why?For cleaning?

@BikelockFugitive 's 😂

Vanessa

Laura @BikelockFugitive 's 😂

🤣

Angelina i think so too, living alone is an important part of living independently and the more independent we are the more likely we are to marry 🙂

I agree.

Ines

🤣

Laura

😉

Laura Of course not. But every time I'm asked why I need the belt off. They see only one reason for it and refuse

Sure,difficult to convince them it is for another reason,in your case.

Laura Not banned, but lose the important connections

With your parents,like for several of us here?

Renita Everybody here can if really needs

I agree.

Renita Tell them you consider the belt(not virginity) as a shame.

As she wears it without this feeling during years,they probably would find it very suspect.

HHelen

a_father When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another.

Would you let your wife to sleep around?

a_father @Laura didn't marry her parents.

Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter.

a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner.

Partner or husband? It's difficult only if you start a relationship with sex.

Christine

a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner. I don't know the reasons, but that has something to do with the fact that you can't let go of your daughter or treat her like your property.

You can say the same about me. I wish to be invited to the club.

Angelina will happen

I'm the next in line.

Saintprudence

HHelen Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter

In your view, when does such responsibility end? Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

Ines

Laura
Wellcome! To targets club.
I will send you soon the members card.

Angelina

Ines I will send you soon the members card.

can you send me one too? 😉

Saintprudence

Ines i almost feel left out, but I guess I’m a willing enough wearer to not count!

HHelen

Saintprudence Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

It depends on a situation. Age doesn't matter too much.

Laura

Angelina can you send me one too?

And to @Vanessa 😂

Angelina

Laura And to @Vanessa 😂

Yes 😉

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