shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

I have to agree here.

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      shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow.

      I didn't say that, I just don't think the comparison is right.

      shinydiamond77 Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

      I disagree

      shinydiamond77 Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.

      did you have bad experiences with sex or masturbation as a teenager or why do you think that? do you think that your experiences are a reason why your daughter has to wear the belt now?

            Ines I have to agree here.

            sad to read, but maybe you forget shiny is saying 12 is ok in the other thread.

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                Jen

                Jen sad to read, but maybe you forget shiny is saying 12 is ok in the other thread.

                No, Jen, I explain myself badly:
                I agree with the fact that a girl does not have to masturbate. I will never agree in:

                A) defend use of a belt in kids
                B) forcing use any age

                For that I specifically wrote "here".

                      Ines A) defend use of a belt in kids

                      i know we have discussed this many times but i never got a clear answer. from what age? 12?, 14?, 16?, 18? ...

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                        shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

                        Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.

                        Woah! Couldn't disagree more.
                        If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.

                            Sin I actually bought my first cage when I was 14 years old.

                                Sin If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.

                                no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

                                    Angelina no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

                                    Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.

                                        Sin Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.

                                        if it is the only thing that keeps you sane, i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)

                                            Angelina i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)

                                            All of the above!

                                              Angelina it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

                                              I agree.

                                              Angelina excessive masturbation

                                              Depends how often she did it.

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                                                    Vanessa Depends how often she did it.

                                                    It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to? At the time a chastity belt would have been very, very damaging to me, both physically and psychologically. That's why I am strongly against belting teenagers against their will... stopping them from taking care of themselves and labelling girls as "sluts" for doing what is natural / necessary is incredibly damaging.

                                                        Sin It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to?

                                                        I would say the limit is where masturbation has a negative impact on other areas of life, so no exact number.

                                                            Angelina
                                                            I agree with that. If you are not addicted and you have fun without neglecting other important things in your life is fine.

                                                              You can play excessively but it doesn't mean you're addicted. It's not as simple as that. There are other reasons why it has to be done... self care, tension relief etc etc.

                                                              Hitting the reset button is important for a lot of people.

                                                                Sin
                                                                I agree. Play excessively is not necessary a proof of addiction.