Single again chastity

saras It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

Take your time. To jump in a relation only to get out of the belt is not a good reason.

saras It is only te start of the relationship and we are not ready yet for that

that's ok of course, a relationship has to develop first, but over a longer period of time you should consider this as an alternative.

Christine Well, if she pays my rent she will also require the belt.

i rather meant that she might be able to support you professionally in some way. maybe there is a job in her company that you can do to earn your own money

Angelina i rather meant that she might be able to support you professionally in some way. maybe there is a job in her company that you can do to earn your own money

She does in that sense.

Angelina what do you mean by "in this sense"?

She helps me to organize my life, like find a job, etc.

Angelina if you have a job, you should look for your own flat

Not enough.

Christine She helps me to organize my life, like find a job, etc.

Christine Not enough.

so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference.

Angelina so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference

I honestly don’t get Christine. I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

James I get the same impression.

James

it is similar to @Helen and @Renita, she usually writes very short answers, which would not be a problem if they were clear, but this makes it difficult. but i will still try to help if possible.

Christine Last.

what do you mean??

Angelina what do you mean??

To be unbelted.

Christine To be unbelted.

the deal was that you wear the belt as long as you need her help, she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

Angelina she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

She wants me to keep wearing the belt even if I don't depend on her. Ofc I'm not going to.

Christine

but that wasn't what was meant at the beginning, was it? wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her? so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Angelina wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her?

I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

Angelina so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Right, and I will not.

Christine I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

i admit that at this point i can help only poorly. the question is, of course, if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt. you should urgently become an independent single woman.

Angelina if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt

Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

Angelina you should urgently become an independent single woman.

I know and working on it hard.

Christine Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

You don't have to ask her either, but you should talk to her then.

Christine I know and working on it hard.

I hope you have success soon, you have been wearing the belt for too long.