Joh

Well she still wants me locked until marriage but now I know that I’ll get the key once I’m married.

    Jonas

    Jonas 😃 Am so happy to read this. What a wonderful thing. Am so glad to read it went so well.

    Yeah I’m really happy with how it went too 🙂 i feel much better knowing I’ll be out once I’m married which will be soon hopefully

    Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

    Hahaha you could say that

      Funguy I’ll get the key once I’m married

      Funguy he thinks it’s sexy

      Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

      Funguy Hahaha you could say that

      Hope your experience under your mother's lock and key did not ruin your acveptance of the device too much. Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

        Funguy it’s best for me to be locked up

        To prevent random straight sex?

          Laura

          LOL. Yes, what is she afraid of? That you'll make your boyfriend pregnant? 🤰

            youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower,

            of course not, in most cases my father sits on the toilet lid and looks more at his smartphone than at me. it's not like being in prison

            Jonas Thanks for this @Angelina, I really, really, appreciate the time you've put into understanding me.

            of course i understand you, i have learned a lot about voluntary chastity here and of course i understand what it means to be sexually frustrated. i think the important thing is that you don't forget the big goal and that your wife supports you. 🙂

            Funguy

            that sounds good, very good even. you see, you don't have to worry too much. i am really happy for both of you. 🙂

            youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

            The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

              Funguy Yeah I’m really happy with how it went too 🙂

              It really couldn't have gone much better!! 😁

              The fact the belt came up in conversation sounds more than a little embarrassing though! Did the reason for the belt come up too? 😳 Or, I forget, does your bf already know your mother's reasons? 😅

                Jonas The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

                I figured it would be more of a three-way meeting between the mother, the wearer and the partner where they make that decision together, some time during wedding preparations. In a fictional world where chastity is more commonplace, I might imagine the key being handed along with the rings from the parents to the best man to the wearer and finally to their partner, but that would be kind of impractical in reality, where most of the wedding party is unlikely to know about your chastity arrangement.

                Jonas Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

                I think so,too.

                Jonas the quicker you stop fighting it.

                I still fight mine a lot...

                Jonas Nothing worse than a belt that keeps orgasm out of reach but seemingly attainable.

                More frustrating,yes.

                Jonas That's where internet filters come in. I can and will have to ask my wife for limits to be set on this website. The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

                How long would you be allowed?

                Angelina right, mostly it is a form of stubbornness, but no ill will

                I agree.

                youdontknowme that is why I like chastity devices as a sort of "are you sure" prompt.

                Only if you are your own keyholder.

                Avery

                Mainly to be sure I don't cheat during it.

                youdontknowme I do not think that, outside of fetish couples, anyone is supervising showers for the viewer's gratification.

                I agree.

                youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower, more like staying in the room and casting a quick glance at unpredictable interviews to make sure nobody is abusing their hygiene break.

                Yes,even if more watched when I shower/dry the part which are generally under my chastity belt...

                Funguy

                Good it went well!🙂

                It is similar to the "approval talk" with my parents when I wanted to date a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,except they told me if they approved him/her only after he/she left.

                Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

                🤣

                Funguy now I know that I’ll get the key once I’m married.

                Good to be sure of it,now.

                youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

                It would not be bad.

                I would find somehow romantic,if,at my wedding,Emilie get the key to my chastity belt,and I get the key to Emilie's chastity belt(we plan to both wear it during our wedding).

                  Vanessa How long would you be allowed?

                  A half hour I guess, but that would be for all social media.

                    Jonas

                    Haha yeah it was embarrassing but not unexpected, she didn’t bring up the reason but he already knows. 😅

                      youdontknowme

                      If he does get the key I’m sure the belt will come off very fast, but I’m not against having it as a toy but I don’t think I’ll go into long term wear anytime soon

                        Funguy Haha yeah it was embarrassing but not unexpected, she didn’t bring up the reason but he already knows.

                        Funguy That would be quite the gift

                        Well, if you do ever find yourself falling into old habits, you'll know what to do! 😁

                          Funguy but he already knows.

                          Funguy To prevent masturbation actually

                          Funguy If he does get the key I’m sure the belt will come off very fast, but I’m not against having it as a toy but I don’t think I’ll go into long term wear anytime soon

                          If he knows you are such a compulsive masturbator that you need a chastity belt to keep you in check, who is to say it will not go back on as fast as it came off 😜. Especially if he seems to find your belt quite hot, he might enjoy being your only source of relief.

                          That said, that would not be for him alone to decide, such things need to be consensual. But considering you are kept belted until you marry, he seems to have the better bargaining position.