Jonas

Jonas ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Am so happy to read this. What a wonderful thing. Am so glad to read it went so well.

Yeah Iโ€™m really happy with how it went too ๐Ÿ™‚ i feel much better knowing Iโ€™ll be out once Iโ€™m married which will be soon hopefully

Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

Hahaha you could say that

    Funguy Iโ€™ll get the key once Iโ€™m married

    Funguy he thinks itโ€™s sexy

    Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

    Funguy Hahaha you could say that

    Hope your experience under your mother's lock and key did not ruin your acveptance of the device too much. Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

      Funguy itโ€™s best for me to be locked up

      To prevent random straight sex?

        Laura

        LOL. Yes, what is she afraid of? That you'll make your boyfriend pregnant? ๐Ÿคฐ

          youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower,

          of course not, in most cases my father sits on the toilet lid and looks more at his smartphone than at me. it's not like being in prison

          Jonas Thanks for this @Angelina, I really, really, appreciate the time you've put into understanding me.

          of course i understand you, i have learned a lot about voluntary chastity here and of course i understand what it means to be sexually frustrated. i think the important thing is that you don't forget the big goal and that your wife supports you. ๐Ÿ™‚

          Funguy

          that sounds good, very good even. you see, you don't have to worry too much. i am really happy for both of you. ๐Ÿ™‚

          youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

          The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

            Funguy Yeah Iโ€™m really happy with how it went too ๐Ÿ™‚

            It really couldn't have gone much better!! ๐Ÿ˜

            The fact the belt came up in conversation sounds more than a little embarrassing though! Did the reason for the belt come up too? ๐Ÿ˜ณ Or, I forget, does your bf already know your mother's reasons? ๐Ÿ˜…

              Jonas The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

              I figured it would be more of a three-way meeting between the mother, the wearer and the partner where they make that decision together, some time during wedding preparations. In a fictional world where chastity is more commonplace, I might imagine the key being handed along with the rings from the parents to the best man to the wearer and finally to their partner, but that would be kind of impractical in reality, where most of the wedding party is unlikely to know about your chastity arrangement.

              Jonas Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

              I think so,too.

              Jonas the quicker you stop fighting it.

              I still fight mine a lot...

              Jonas Nothing worse than a belt that keeps orgasm out of reach but seemingly attainable.

              More frustrating,yes.

              Jonas That's where internet filters come in. I can and will have to ask my wife for limits to be set on this website. The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

              How long would you be allowed?

              Angelina right, mostly it is a form of stubbornness, but no ill will

              I agree.

              youdontknowme that is why I like chastity devices as a sort of "are you sure" prompt.

              Only if you are your own keyholder.

              Avery

              Mainly to be sure I don't cheat during it.

              youdontknowme I do not think that, outside of fetish couples, anyone is supervising showers for the viewer's gratification.

              I agree.

              youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower, more like staying in the room and casting a quick glance at unpredictable interviews to make sure nobody is abusing their hygiene break.

              Yes,even if more watched when I shower/dry the part which are generally under my chastity belt...

              Funguy

              Good it went well!๐Ÿ™‚

              It is similar to the "approval talk" with my parents when I wanted to date a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,except they told me if they approved him/her only after he/she left.

              Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

              ๐Ÿคฃ

              Funguy now I know that Iโ€™ll get the key once Iโ€™m married.

              Good to be sure of it,now.

              youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

              It would not be bad.

              I would find somehow romantic,if,at my wedding,Emilie get the key to my chastity belt,and I get the key to Emilie's chastity belt(we plan to both wear it during our wedding).

                Vanessa How long would you be allowed?

                A half hour I guess, but that would be for all social media.

                  Jonas

                  Haha yeah it was embarrassing but not unexpected, she didnโ€™t bring up the reason but he already knows. ๐Ÿ˜…

                    youdontknowme

                    If he does get the key Iโ€™m sure the belt will come off very fast, but Iโ€™m not against having it as a toy but I donโ€™t think Iโ€™ll go into long term wear anytime soon

                      Funguy Haha yeah it was embarrassing but not unexpected, she didnโ€™t bring up the reason but he already knows.

                      Funguy That would be quite the gift

                      Well, if you do ever find yourself falling into old habits, you'll know what to do! ๐Ÿ˜

                        Funguy but he already knows.

                        Funguy To prevent masturbation actually

                        Funguy If he does get the key Iโ€™m sure the belt will come off very fast, but Iโ€™m not against having it as a toy but I donโ€™t think Iโ€™ll go into long term wear anytime soon

                        If he knows you are such a compulsive masturbator that you need a chastity belt to keep you in check, who is to say it will not go back on as fast as it came off ๐Ÿ˜œ. Especially if he seems to find your belt quite hot, he might enjoy being your only source of relief.

                        That said, that would not be for him alone to decide, such things need to be consensual. But considering you are kept belted until you marry, he seems to have the better bargaining position.

                          Jonas The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

                          I think either way it is a (symbolic) transfer of power to his husband. If they want an equal relationship, I'm not sure that such a symbolic gesture is quite fitting on their wedding day, even though it would be a romantic one. (Unless the boyfriend also wears a chastity device for the wedding, and the exchange of keys is mutual, like Vanessa is considering.)

                            Vanessa It is similar to the "approval talk" with my parents when I wanted to date a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,except they told me if they approved him/her only after he/she left.

                            why only after he/she has left? i think it is better if the potential partner is still there in case there are misunderstandings that can easily be cleared up

                            Vanessa I would find somehow romantic,if,at my wedding,Emilie get the key to my chastity belt,and I get the key to Emilie's chastity belt(we plan to both wear it during our wedding).

                            that sounds very romantic ๐Ÿ™‚ but before you ask no, that is no longer possible for us, we have sold camryn's belt in the meantime. ๐Ÿ˜‰

                            Jonas A half hour I guess, but that would be for all social media.

                            not much, when I think about how much you write here alone ๐Ÿ˜‰

                            Laura But since you have a partner now it doesn't make sense anymore

                            why? he can still masturbate. i have a different opinion, but i wouldn't say that it should be forbidden in general.